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Episode 60: Hypersexuality (aka sex addiction)
In Episode 60 of Nothing But Sex, host Vanessa D'Alaji dives deep into her personal experience with hypersexuality, also known as sex addiction. She explores the intense cravings, creative connec...
Episode 60: Hypersexuality (aka sex addiction)
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It's time for nothing but sex, hosted by Maxim VI Cornest Vanessa D'Alaji.
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Fias, unapologetic, politically incorrect.
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The topics will wet more than just your appetite.
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Let's journey through taboo sexual terrain with a delicious evil of nothing but sex.
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Here's Vanessa.
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I thought that it was a good time to record an episode because I am so fucking horny.
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I suffer from hypersexuality.
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I wouldn't say so far.
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I live with hypersexuality.
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So hypersexuality is basically sex addiction.
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It's nymphomania.
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It is crazy.
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I don't think people truly understand the restlessness that comes with hypersexuality.
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You are constantly distracted.
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I'm guessing boys or any man that has been through his 20s knows what a woman's hypersexuality would be like.
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It's similar.
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You are distracted.
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You can't stop thinking about sex.
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It makes you scattered.
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I've been on social media a lot.
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I'm finding it hard to settle.
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Finding it hard to sleep.
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Finding it hard to read a book.
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You just go really hard during the heightened state of the mania with hypersexuality.
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That means that you crave porn that is more full-on.
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I wouldn't say violent, but just more hardcore.
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You crave harder pounding when you jack him yourself with a dildo.
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Everything is just a little bit more hardcore.
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And then you reach your peak and that might go for days.
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It might go for weeks.
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It has gone for months before.
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So you'll be like, it's really intense.
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Your personality is really intense too.
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While you're going through this because you're just so fucking horny.
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You want to fuck everything that walks.
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You want to suck everything that walks.
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And then much like a drug.
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I don't know if any of you've taken drugs.
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I certainly have.
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I don't anymore, but I used to.
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Like a drug come down.
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You come down and you have the lull.
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And the lull can last for a few days or a few weeks.
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And then you're climbing again and you're getting horny again.
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And so I've been living like this since I was 16.
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And it's just something that I live with.
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But my hypersexuality, my sex addiction, my nymphinomaniac, you could say,
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is definitely related to my creativity.
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So it's related to my work pussy.
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Everything comes from my cunt.
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So my art comes from my cunt.
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My writing comes from my cunt.
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My speaking, my poetry.
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Everything creative about me comes from my work pussy, which is why I would never ever take any depressants.
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I have taken them when I was a teenager, but they numbed me out.
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I never take them because it's too risky.
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Because I need my sexuality for my creativity.
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I need it for this podcast.
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I need it for my sex columns.
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I need it for my sex blogs.
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I need it for my paintings.
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I need it for everything.
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So I would never do that.
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I would never do anything that ruins that.
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But they are connected.
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Now the one thing that a lot of you don't know is I got into university recently.
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Basically I finished 365 days of art therapy to try and heal my suicidal ideation.
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To try and heal my severe depression.
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And it had a profound effect on me.
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The daily art making.
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And I thought, wow, I want to delve deeper into this.
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I want to learn more about this.
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So I applied to the University of Tasmania.
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I got into the course.
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I am studying creative arts and health as a student.
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I'm over the next year or six months.
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And yeah, I'm really, really enjoying it.
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And I'm really excited to be a student again.
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And to be at uni and learning about something that has helped me.
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And it just shows that art can have so many effects on mental health, on dementia, on chronic pain.
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It is just endless.
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All of the effects that art and music have on the human brain.
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And have on relaxing us and affecting our immune system.
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So I've had that happening.
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And then the other thing is I had two of my paintings that I painted during my 365 days of art therapy.
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When I was agrophobic.
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Because I was agrophobic for nearly five years.
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And when I just wanted to fucking ended.
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These are the paintings that I did.
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And they have been accepted into a art exhibition in Brazil.
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So it will be my first international debu as an artist.
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And also locally in Queensland, Australia.
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So that is a big feather in my cap.
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I've only been going a year at art making.
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You know, I'm not the best drawer.
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But I do have something to say.
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And I do have something to express.
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And I use lots of beautiful colors.
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So I am very proud that my art is going to have its debu.
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So all of this, the university, the art making,
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the getting in the exhibitions, all of that stirs me up.
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You know, it stirs up my promiscuity, it stirs up my wappoozy.
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And it just makes me want to be fucked over and over and over again.
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Really hard in every orifice.
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And that's what it does to me because they are related with my sexuality.
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Heart the sexuality, my creativity, they're all one.
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I think it was Henry Miller said sex is art.
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Or he said sex and art at the same thing.
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I think it was him.
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It could be someone else.
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I'll look at opposite as I finish this podcast.
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But yeah, I just wanted to drop it at sun-edited and I'll be dropping another episode in a few days.
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But yeah, I just needed to release a little bit of energy.
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And I knew recording the podcast would do that.
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So thank you for listening to me, Rambl.
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And I hope you having a really lovely, lovely weekend.
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And I'm off to Jack home on my pussy some more.
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So I can fucking sleep tonight.
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You can see more about Vanessa at VanessaDaLagie.net.
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Thanks for listening to Nothing But Sex.
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