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AEE 2491: Why Should You Not Call Someone Yellow in English?
In this episode of the All-Ears English Podcast, hosts Michelle Kaplan and Aubrey Carter discuss why the term 'yellow' is considered offensive when referring to someone as cowardly. They exp...
AEE 2491: Why Should You Not Call Someone Yellow in English?
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This is an All-Ears English Podcast, Episode 2491.
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Why should you not call someone yellow in English?
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With your American host, Michelle Kaplan,
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Are you a scaredy cat?
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Today, learn four phrases for calling someone scared
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or cowardly and discover why you should not
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call someone yellow in English.
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C-A-R-E-E-R.
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Hello, Michelle. How are you?
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I'm doing well, Aubrey. How are you?
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I'm excited to record with you.
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I know. It's always fun when we get to join each other
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in the mic. Lindsay's out of town this week.
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I'm excited to hear about her trip when she gets back.
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And in the meantime, you have a good week.
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Yeah, we get to record. Yes.
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So, but Aubrey, I would like to start today.
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We're going to be doing a great job.
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With our question for you.
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All right.
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So have you ever watched an older show and seen
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or heard something that wouldn't be in a show today?
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All the time.
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I can't believe how often this happens, actually, right?
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Terms that we wouldn't use any longer that are discriminatory
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references to something being inappropriate,
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or it's crazy how often this happens.
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What about you?
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Yeah. I mean, even something as simple as,
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I mean, this isn't just like, even when you watch
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I Love Lucy, do you ever watch I Love Lucy?
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No, but yes.
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I mean, even like, sometimes, you know,
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I think we've talked about this something holding up, right?
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You watch I Love Lucy, such a classic show,
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but there's a lot that doesn't hold up.
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I mean, including, like, you know,
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they're sleeping in separate beds.
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They weren't allowed to say like, they were the first show,
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I think, on TV to say the word pregnant.
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Oh, that's interesting.
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So just things were different and also just like the relationship
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between Lucy and Ricky, she was right.
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So and also there's a lot of making fun of Ricky's accent.
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There's just certain things that I,
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I mean, this happens all the time where you think,
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oh, that doesn't, it doesn't feel right today.
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We're trying to be more respectful of other people's
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culture, language, sexual orientation.
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And so a lot of things that used to be very accepted
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and funny in shows, we won't see much anymore.
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A good example is back to the future.
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Do you remember the movie, the Back to the Future series?
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I loved it.
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Yeah.
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But I remember one of the characters calling someone yellow.
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This is, it's said a lot in the show to mean cowardly.
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They're like, nobody calls me yellow.
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And now we don't use this term.
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So we actually got a question about this.
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And I'm excited to dive in today to why we don't recommend
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calling someone yellow and better things,
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better ways that we can call,
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because it's like you have to call someone cowardly.
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Right?
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It happens.
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Yeah, so this comes from YouTube.
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Aubrey, would you like me to read the question?
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Yeah.
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All right, so this is from Mustafa.
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And he says, hello, I'm Mustafa from Syria.
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Thanks for the beautiful episode.
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I heard an idiom, do not turn yellow on me.
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What is its meaning and when can I use it?
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Ooh, well, thank you so much.
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Mustafa, for your question.
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Thanks for listening.
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And yeah, this is a really great question.
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A lot to talk about here.
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And you will hear this a lot in older movies.
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Yellow used to mean cowardly, right?
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Not brave.
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You'll hear an often yellow bellied.
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Yellow bellied.
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You'll see the yellow bellied.
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Blah blah blah.
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Right.
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Exactly.
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So if you haven't heard it yet, you probably will now.
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Old Westerns, lots of old movies.
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This was a very common term.
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And usually when it was said, there was no intent
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of being a discriminatory term,
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but the origins of this term are discriminatory.
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And so that's why it's no longer used commonly.
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We definitely wouldn't recommend it
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because of the history of this word.
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Yeah, definitely.
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Yeah, one way that we could describe this word is,
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well, we could say it's a discriminatory term.
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It's also a pejorative.
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That's a new vocabulary word.
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Aubrey, what is pejorative mean?
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Yeah, this is a great word.
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It means it's a word expressing contempt or disapproval.
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So it's also used as an adjective,
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meaning to express contempt or disapproval, right?
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So this is any term that has some kind of racist
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or discriminatory prejudicial feeling behind it.
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Right.
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So yeah, a really important word to know.
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So but today we're gonna share better vocabulary.
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So I mean, when somebody did say yellow,
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what did they mean?
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Yeah, it meant cowardly.
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And we're going to share some great words we still use
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that aren't pejoratives.
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The first one is spineless.
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This means lacking courage.
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It can also mean lacking like moral strength.
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So for example, he was too spineless to speak up
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against the unfair rules.
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So this is often the way we use this.
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It's someone should be brave.
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There's a reason to be brave and they don't dare.
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They're afraid, we'll call them spineless.
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Ooh, yeah.
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Or another thing you could say is,
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I don't wanna be spineless, but it's hard to say anything
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since I'm not confrontational at all.
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So yeah, I think we've all been there.
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You don't wanna have a confrontation,
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but yeah, someone might say that could be
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in certain situations, that could be spineless.
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And this is a, yeah, if you, you don't wanna just
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throw this word around and call anybody spineless,
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that's a pretty big insult.
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It is, right?
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This is heavy.
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We don't really use this playfully, right?
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If you're calling someone spineless,
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they're likely to be offended
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or maybe have their feelings hurt.
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So yeah, that's good to know.
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It's a pretty serious word.
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And we also will sort of change the word
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and say someone has no spine.
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And we do use it in less serious situations,
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like if you're at a haunted house
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and someone doesn't go in, you might be like,
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oh, you're so spineless, you have no spine.
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But I think that these next words that we have,
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these are more, like I like how you described spineless,
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it's a heavy word.
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These next ones are lighter.
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So this first one is Scarity Cat.
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And this is more a person who is easily frightened.
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I think of Scarity Cat more for scary movies.
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Lindsay and I have recently talked about scary movies
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if we like them or haunted houses
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or going on a ride, a scary ride.
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If you say, no, I'm a Scarity Cat, right?
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So it's a person who is easily frightened.
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So you could say, stop being such a Scarity Cat.
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It's just a little thunder.
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Yes, or she's a real Scarity Cat
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when it comes to horror movies.
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That's about me, I think.
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That is you.
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Depends, I like a good thriller,
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but I don't really like jump scares.
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Oh, I hate that.
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That I can't.
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Like when I know someone's gonna pop out
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and you know what's happening, the music, it's all leading there,
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I can't take it.
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Right?
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I'm just gonna go in the other room.
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Yeah, yeah, I can't do that.
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It's interesting how this sort of highlights the difference
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between being afraid and being cowardly.
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It is different, right?
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Where if someone isn't brave,
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often it's more of an implication
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that they should be for some reason.
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They're facing some kind of injustice or unfair treatment
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and they need to be brave and stick up for themselves.
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And then there's also fear of things like this,
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haunted houses, roller coasters, right?
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So often what we would call someone,
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whether playful or not,
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will be a little bit different depending on
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what we're saying they're scared of.
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Right, yeah, exactly.
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And similar to Scarity Cat is chicken.
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So this is scared or cowardly,
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can be used as an adjective or a noun.
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So it's interesting.
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I would say this one could also be kind of both
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kinds of things that you're scared of, right?
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So for example, you might just hear,
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are you a chicken or are you chicken, right?
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Exactly, right?
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So used as a noun there,
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are you a chicken, meaning like are you scared?
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Are you not brave?
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You might say, I'm not jumping over that fence.
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I'm way too chicken or you could say,
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I'm too big of a chicken.
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So either you're using it as a noun or an adjective.
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Right, but we also might say chicken out.
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So what's that, Aubrey?
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Yeah, this is like a phrasal verb, it's an idiom,
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but it's to decide not to do something because you're afraid.
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So for example, I was going to try bungee jumping,
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but I chickened out at the last second.
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Oh, that's what they mean.
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Or she promised she'd speak in front of the class,
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but then she chickened out.
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Yeah, and we use this a lot, right?
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It's not as heavy as saying like,
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then she was spineless.
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It's a little more playful, a lighter, right?
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But yeah, I like how you said,
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chicken can be used for either.
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You'd be like, oh, I need to talk to my boss about this,
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but I'm too chicken.
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Right.
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Or you could say spineless.
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It depends on sort of how heavy the situation is.
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Right, right, right.
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And all of these, you don't want to be called these things,
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but like if I were to call you a scary cat,
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Aubrey, would you rather I call you spineless or a scary cat?
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Definitely a scary cat.
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That was the most playful of all of these, right?
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Yeah, right.
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I don't want to go in the whole house.
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A scary cat.
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Yeah, but it really depends on the situation, right?
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If you and I are in a horror movie,
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and I'm screaming the whole time we leave,
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that would be more appropriate to either to just be like,
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you're such a scary cat.
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Whereas these others imply bravery more,
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which that's, you know, being scared in a horror movie
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doesn't mean you're not brave, right?
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Right.
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It just don't like that kind of stuff.
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Yeah, exactly.
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All right, we have a role play here to use some of these terms.
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You and I are planning on going to a haunted house
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in this role play.
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Yeah, boy, I don't love that.
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I don't, I don't love that.
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So, but that's okay.
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Halloween is coming up kind of soon.
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So here we go.
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Okay, the haunted house opens at eight.
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Are you ready?
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Honestly, I don't know.
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I'm kind of scared.
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You know I'm a chicken about this stuff.
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Oh, Aubrey, don't be such a scary cat.
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I heard this one isn't bad at all.
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I will go with you, but I reserve the right to chicken out
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and not go inside.
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Absolutely not.
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You can't plan on being spineless.
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You have to promise you'll come in with me.
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There's no way I'm doing it alone.
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Okay, who's the chicken now?
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Oh, good role play.
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Yeah, I like this because it shows how all of these
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can be playing playful.
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Even spineless there, right?
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I'm not offended.
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Can't plan on being spineless, right?
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Can't plan ahead on being not brave.
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Right.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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It is really good how we showed it in that in that lighter way.
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So that's good.
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So let's go through it.
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So you said I'm kind of scared.
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Do you know I'm a chicken?
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I'm a chicken about this stuff.
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Yeah, and you can use either way here.
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I'm using as a noun.
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I'm a chicken.
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I'm a chicken about this stuff.
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Or I could have just said, you know I'm chicken,
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meaning like, you know I'm scared.
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And then you said, don't be such a scary cat.
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And this is perfect, right?
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It's not really mean.
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It's teasing a little bit, poking fun.
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You're being like, don't be scared.
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We got this.
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Right.
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And then you said, I'll go with you,
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but I reserve the right to chicken out
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and not go inside, right?
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So to change my mind,
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and because I'm scared.
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Exactly, right?
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This is fun.
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Like, use just a phrasal verb.
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I love it.
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And then you said, you can't plan on being spineless.
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So this, you know, any of these would work.
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You can't plan on being a chicken, a scary cat,
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but spineless works here.
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So that means brave.
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You can't plan on not being brave.
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Right.
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And then you said, because I said,
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I don't want to do it alone.
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And you said, oh, who's the chicken now?
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So now you're throwing it back at me.
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Yep.
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It's telling you a chicken.
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It means you're scared.
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You're not brave, right?
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You don't want to go in alone.
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Who would?
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Yeah.
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Imagine going into 100 house alone.
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I don't know.
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I don't want to go even with 10 people.
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I don't certainly not going alone.
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Right.
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We want to share an episode in case you missed it.
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All there's English 2497 was grip or grasp.
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Tips for this tricky English vocabulary.
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And I thought of this one,
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because if someone's being a chicken,
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you might tell them to get a grip.
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So make sure you don't miss that episode.
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Yes, absolutely true.
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Yes, awesome.
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As a takeaway here,
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we all have moments when we're scared.
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This is actually a great connection moment.
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Look at this role play.
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What a great connection moment to like
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be planning on doing something,
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but admitting you're a little scared
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admitting that vulnerability
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and being kind of teasing and playful about it.
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Yeah, true.
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All right, Aubrey, well, this was so much fun.
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Glad we recorded together.
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And yeah, we'll see you soon.
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Awesome, see you next time.
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