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Ep. 244 Resonance Over Test: Why Vibration Shapes Your Life More Than Lessons Ever Will.

In Episode 244 of Spiritual Shade, Alia Loveley explores the concept of resonance and frequency, suggesting that life isn't a series of tests but rather a game we play based on the vibrations we ...

Ep. 244 Resonance Over Test: Why Vibration Shapes Your Life More Than Lessons Ever Will.
Ep. 244 Resonance Over Test: Why Vibration Shapes Your Life More Than Lessons Ever Will.
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spk_0 Hello and welcome to another episode of Spiritual Shade. I'm your host, Alia Loveley.
spk_0 And today I'm going to talk to you a lot about resonance and frequency and the idea that maybe
spk_0 the universe has never been testing us, but we are connecting to a particular frequency in which we
spk_0 resonate. And I talked about this lesson on Love Society this past week if you are interested in
spk_0 communing with a group of mystics and intimate settings and want to learn more
spk_0 philosophy or lessons and magic from myself, then go to HelloLoveSocity.com and found your people.
spk_0 So anyway, I had this kind of out-of-body experience last week and then I became obsessed with this
spk_0 idea. And I'm really thankful that it came to me before I started to go through what I was going
spk_0 through this week where I started to think what if Earth was not a school that you came here to learn
spk_0 that tests you. Rather, it's a game that you came to play and your playbook is the level to which
spk_0 you resonate. The game that you're on, the layer that you're in, is the level in which you resonate,
spk_0 that the universe doesn't have overlords or authorities that test you on your worthiness or
spk_0 enlightenment rather, the construct exists in dualities and the spectrum of polarization that makes
spk_0 you choose a resonance. That the trials don't come in as tests, but as choices and that
spk_0 forks in the road are kind of more like opportunities that we choose to resonate with so that you can
spk_0 level up or out because that's a part of you learning to remember who you are and learning your
spk_0 power. But you can also choose to stay where you're at and that's completely your choice. Now,
spk_0 not everything is a choice for us because the world exists in free will and other people make
spk_0 choices that affect us as well. But you know, what if no one is testing us, but we're here to play
spk_0 the game of frequency and freedom. We exist in a construct with quote unquote rules that I've
spk_0 been given to us, but like nobody's really born with the same fucking rules. No one, like you're born
spk_0 into poverty while someone else is born with a silver spoon, like you're born with, you know,
spk_0 all your able bodied and someone else isn't like everybody comes in with different rules. So
spk_0 what rules are actually even real? What lengths will we need to go to break outside of the said
spk_0 matrixes rules and how fast will we connect the dots without trials? There is no game.
spk_0 So the reason I'm posing this question is because and I'm not sure how to talk about this publicly.
spk_0 You know, about what's going on in my life because it involves other people and privacy for them
spk_0 is really important, but something that has come into my life as a cycle and what has been really
spk_0 difficult about this cycle and this layer is I'm getting to watch externally speaking how quickly
spk_0 the universe honors what we believe about ourselves and what we believe about our world and how
spk_0 in an algorithmic way what we engage with we we have hurtling right back to us.
spk_0 And I've been able to watch it externally speaking and then look at it deeper as a practice for
spk_0 myself about wow, like the things that I interact with it is the only thing I have power on control
spk_0 over is high respond. And you know, a lot of us grew up in communities and things where we were
spk_0 told to be nice and kind and do more for your brother, your sister or whomever those who are
spk_0 struggling and and me just get to the point at the right age of 41 where I'm like I'm going to do
spk_0 what's best for me. I'm going to do what's best for me full stop. I'm tired of taking care and trying
spk_0 to fix and trying to correct someone's narrative about me and if they're convinced that I'm
spk_0 villain in their story then so be it. I say this like with my full chest because I have tried so
spk_0 hard with many people in my life to to over give over function, over provide to make sure
spk_0 they have everything that they need to over intellectualize to pathologize their behavior
spk_0 to not write them off as you know a bad person. You make space for them and I found out that
spk_0 there's a sneaky resonance underneath there that says that I still have to earn love.
spk_0 I still have to trade and exchange what I can do for others in order to be loved. And that is a
spk_0 particular resonance. It's not radiating at a high frequency at a high vibration that's resonating
spk_0 at lack still. And so you manifest for who you are at the time, not who you are presently
spk_0 unless you still choose that resonance from from an old song. So the idea to me is that resonance
spk_0 works like music. I hope this works for most of you but if you think about music you go into a guitar
spk_0 store and if all of the guitars are in tune and you play an E string they will all vibrate.
spk_0 It is a law of this universe that even in hermetic principles you know everything vibrates
spk_0 everything has a frequency everything has a note. And so if we are all notes in some way or another
spk_0 we have to have to be in hermetic resonance with what is happening in our environment.
spk_0 The moment that we are off there is a dissonance that happens where we go this this is this note
spk_0 does not belong in my song this isn't an harmony with me. But you ever posed the question have you
spk_0 you know ever said to yourself why does this keep happening to me? Why does this keep coming to me?
spk_0 What is the universe trying to teach me? Maybe this is a test or a trial. Maybe it's not a test
spk_0 that you're failing but maybe it's an echo of a song you're still playing you think of a song
spk_0 it's a verse it's a chorus it's a chorus it's a bridge it's a chorus and a chorus and a chorus
spk_0 so in some way or another as I've always stated that healing is not linear it's cyclical
spk_0 we will see some of the same things cycling around over and over and over to deepen our resonance with
spk_0 something like I always thought it was like we're being tested in some way are we still
spk_0 you know connected to this old version of ourself but what if what if there is no test what if
spk_0 there's no one at the top basically watching you and grading you what if it is only cyclical in this
spk_0 way because the notes that we sing are in harmonic resonance with that particular chorus and that
spk_0 chorus comes around however many times until the song is over you get to say when the song is over
spk_0 you get to decide that you know maybe the universe isn't grading us it's reverberating to align with
spk_0 our own harmonic resonance no it's really funny is I have this download and I was connecting
spk_0 you know to this information I wrote out this whole lesson I taught it in love society and then
spk_0 I saw a clip with Joe dispends of saying the very same thing and I was like that's funny I don't
spk_0 I don't I don't listen to a lot of his content I've read half of one of his books once but he was
spk_0 saying exactly the same thing that I was saying and I thought because I'm in harmonic resonance
spk_0 that's what synchronicity is you are in a particular vibration and frequency and you start getting
spk_0 all these signs that affirm wherever you're at and and it's what's interesting about that too is
spk_0 that you might affirm where your resonance is it doesn't necessarily affirm the expectation you had
spk_0 now chew on that one for a bit I wouldn't take me out it's it's you're getting synchronicity because
spk_0 it's in the harmonic resonance for who you are right now in the song that you're singing but not
spk_0 for the expectation you might have for the long term if you are deciding in the future you'd like
spk_0 to sing a different song what you have called in harmonically with you right now is not necessarily
spk_0 proof that it shows up as the expectation you had for the next one and so this idea I manifested
spk_0 a mistake is interesting if you don't recognize that you're not really being graded I don't think
spk_0 it's like that actually and this is this is me going back on a lot of teaching I've been doing
spk_0 and not necessarily it's not going back on but like redeveloping in the philosophical way for us
spk_0 to see it because we have so much religious and patriarchal framework that goes along with the idea
spk_0 of passfell morality like this idea of that we're getting theseworthiness tests and this you know
spk_0 kind of enlightenment error rationalism that's like you have to prove yourself by suffering or
spk_0 achieving or getting through the next trauma it keeps us stuck in shame and you know providing as
spk_0 much effort as possible and endless lessons that kind of seep from old frameworks old dynamics old
spk_0 paradigms and so you know knowing that we're spiritual beings having a human experience like
spk_0 we're it's it's in my thought that we're not being tested but we're just free to choose
spk_0 now again like I said this is on every circumstance because the world is a collective operating alongside
spk_0 your internal collective your internal course all right this has more to do with interpersonal
spk_0 stuff how you feel and think how you interact with the world yourself but in this vibrational
spk_0 resonance an echo that we're looking at the the hermetic principle of vibration is that everything
spk_0 vibrates and like attracts like and so if each event plays a note old unhealed experiences will
spk_0 leave overtones that still hum and similar situations harmonize with those tones until we shift
spk_0 until we change a song Carl Jung talks about how um complexes draw out outer events that match
spk_0 inner energies and Gabi Ormate talks about trauma being an internal imprint where life mirrors
spk_0 that imprint it's it's it's not that simple it's not like you know we're thinking of thought and
spk_0 then it comes to us although that that does happen but if we if we very much feel a certain way
spk_0 about the world or a situation or people or whatever our harmonic resonance will play them those
spk_0 notes that and those notes will get our attention because we know that song we know how to sing
spk_0 that song that song sounds familiar to us we will look and pipe up when that nostalgia comes along
spk_0 it is predictable it's like when you hear old song on the radio and you're like oh that's my jam
spk_0 like that is familiar to us that is where we deeply connect to that information that information
spk_0 is important to us in some way or another so it would get our attention you know like the first time
spk_0 you hear a new song you don't know what to expect yet you don't know if it's your jam yet
spk_0 so you might not pay as much attention to it so when when that happens we find these familiar
spk_0 some people will call them traps um but familiar courses that that we would go along with and
spk_0 it's it's the imprint that we pay most attention to because it's familiar
spk_0 we will think that we have gotten out of a cycle and and inevitably gotten deeper into another
spk_0 chorus until we decide we're not going to sing that song anymore now that takes a a shit ton of
spk_0 self-awareness it does take a lot of digging to go what am I resonating with and and dig into the
spk_0 frequencies and the layers and what you exist in your world and what stories you tell yourself and
spk_0 what stories are societally imprinted upon you or from your family or from your trauma or from
spk_0 other experiences so you have to decide what you want to repair because you don't repeat what you
spk_0 repair right um so this this idea is that we're having to step out of the narrative that this always
spk_0 happens because I'm unworthy this always happens because you know I'm not good enough or I'm not
spk_0 enlightened enough or I'm not spiritual enough like I think that causes us further trauma I think
spk_0 that causes us deepening and a dissonance with a reality we actually want we'll continue to produce
spk_0 situations that tell us we're not good enough because the idea that we're being tested means that
spk_0 we're the student and not the master now I don't necessarily consider myself a master but you know
spk_0 why shouldn't I I'm a divine human being I am divinity wrapped in flesh and so are you
spk_0 so I coach people all the time on their intuition and largely the biggest over the biggest hurdle
spk_0 we have to overcome is doubt how you think about yourself and the idea that your intuition isn't
spk_0 strong that you're being tested on it constantly did I make the right decision did I make the right
spk_0 decision pass-fail mentality it gets in the way of us being able to actually call in resonance
spk_0 that that is clear like it makes it difficult for us to be able to break the habit of being
spk_0 old versions of ourselves or identifying with old versions of our self or old stories that we've
spk_0 been told so you need to identify the vibrational note behind or underneath painful themes you see
spk_0 in your life fear abandonment scarcity asking yourself when did I first feel this when did I
spk_0 first feel this when did I first feel like you know this was the end all be all this was the
spk_0 manifestation that was going to make me happy this was the thing that I was going to do this was a
spk_0 job the career I was going to get and I was going to finally be happy what are we looking for in that
spk_0 moment are we trying to fix something we think is broken and if so what we manifest on top of that
spk_0 will always carry the note of what was underneath that painful theme will come back again and again
spk_0 because we didn't get past it just because we manifested something we manifested something out of need
spk_0 we manifested something out of often lack not always but if you're not aware of where it's coming
spk_0 from that that that that that's that chorus will come right back so you you would have to then
spk_0 create new foundations of resonance you would have to start to rehearse something higher gratitude
spk_0 visualization future self embodiment you know that's kind of what magic is for you can use art
spk_0 rituals spoken word to start to kind of encode a new frequency and start to sing a new song
spk_0 you start setting better boundaries you know stop feeling loops that confirm essentially that old
spk_0 frequency that old signal never gotter talks about the feeling of the wish of filled lots of people
spk_0 on like the secret and manifestation or whatever like feel the feelings of already having
spk_0 there is truth to that because you're trying to shift into a new song a new frequency
spk_0 and in declaring that you resonate with whatever that thing is now so saying I now resonate with peace
spk_0 I resonate with power I resonate with abundance you know connecting that to movement
spk_0 to expression in some way while holding that feeling because you don't graduate
spk_0 by passing the test you exit a level by refusing to play the same melody and this talks this is
spk_0 deeply about how we we talk about stories here stories are how humans connect to the world we
spk_0 we're the only thing on earth that does that animals as far as I know don't do that they don't relate
spk_0 until narratives of our ancient ancestors in our history and whatever based on stories
spk_0 racism is a story like fascism power all of these things these are stories built in fear
spk_0 so we we can only really connect to each other through what we tell ourselves and end each other so
spk_0 what does it mean for us to identify that we connect through song like Sunday morning worship right
spk_0 like there there are stories imbued in these songs so we don't we don't graduate by by passing
spk_0 these tests that these trials opportunities come in we we choose what we resonate with
spk_0 obviously like if you're if you're not aware of it then it's passive it's passive choice
spk_0 but this idea here this is really interesting to me but the energetic exchange that we have with
spk_0 other people is based on frequency and so you can experience also what I consider vampirism
spk_0 in relationships of like someone taking your frequency because relationships are resonance fields
spk_0 when two peoples baseline states are far apart like each one will unconsciously adjust to find harmony
spk_0 with the other and if the gap is wide one may end up chronically drained while the other one feels
spk_0 often lifted glow up glow down okay the it's it's like a energetic entrainment like our nervous
spk_0 sink with other people's nervous systems like tuning forks like family we move towards each other's
spk_0 state it's called polyvagal theory and social neurobiology so there's a mutual compromise in these
spk_0 you know in healthy bonds where we both shift a little to meet each other in the middle think
spk_0 about like your friendships where you know you call a friend and girl you have capacity right now
spk_0 this is what's going on my life oh my god girl you know like you know talk back and forth and it
spk_0 may drain one of the friends but you know that there's an equal exchange in frequency so you're
spk_0 able to trade that back and forth where it's not going to diminish yours chronically but
spk_0 unfortunately we have then other relationships unhealthy dynamics where you know if one partner
spk_0 lives in low chronic chaotic self protective frequency and the other one is in a more grounded
spk_0 or high vibe state at some point the higher one may repeatedly downshift in order to connect to
spk_0 that person and the lower one may feel temporarily sooth and elevated but like the higher one will
spk_0 always get depleted and over time like somebody gets dimmed basically while the other one gets
spk_0 elevated and this isn't literal energy theft but it's a nerve it's nervous system labor
spk_0 it's emotional caretaking and in some cases trauma bonding so the reason why this is important is
spk_0 that because we operate through these stories and the next important thing to us is relationships
spk_0 how we connect in these relationships is through these stories and so the story that we tell
spk_0 ourselves is greatly important to the way that we communicate and connect with other people
spk_0 in the world and in our life and if if that is the case then guess what is going to always be
spk_0 the quote-unquote test or the quote-unquote harmonic note that we interact with it's going to
spk_0 always be other people we interact with our world through other people all of our growth mostly
spk_0 comes through the reflection of other people in our life they show up as mirrors
spk_0 in a really big way now everybody like I said has free will so people can be acting a full
spk_0 and have nothing to do with you my dear however if you find yourself attracted to a fool then you will
spk_0 it's there's something that still resonates there with you something that you have left to learn
spk_0 not in a testy kind of way but like in a resonance way like what frequency do I want to vibe with
spk_0 what feels familiar oh man that reminds me of my dad right that feels familiar feels like home
spk_0 it feels like comfort even if it's uncomfortable even if it's something that you like even if it's
spk_0 something you can't even identify at the beginning say that say that you're you know you got a family
spk_0 member who's worn a mask for a very long time and you might not even recognize the person you know
spk_0 years later and how they've treated you and be surprised by that and but there's something still
spk_0 in your resonance that probably probably went off before he had to go oh there's a reason I'm
spk_0 attracted to this you ever have those those I'm you know I'm not even gonna ask this question really
spk_0 because I have clients all the time that have these kind of obsessive connections with particular
spk_0 people who don't want them in romantic relationships where they're just stuck I want to be with this
spk_0 person or whatever I went through that like a while ago like this guy was just absolutely just
spk_0 obsessed with and like there's something so like tying me to him it's that he didn't want me
spk_0 like it was so intoxicating to get like a little crumb from this person because it it represented how
spk_0 I felt about myself deeply it reflected I got a lot out of that relationship quote unquote um
spk_0 because he reflected back to me how I felt about myself it was a mirror I was so attracted to this
spk_0 mirror because he made me look at myself in the worst way possible and something about that felt good
spk_0 because that was what I resonated with like it was it was the harmony to my ears we will listen to
spk_0 bad songs all the time I'm gonna say this and you're gonna find you're gonna get it because
spk_0 there's music that you will sing with your full chest in the car that'll say the most absolute
spk_0 horrendous misogynistic stuff about you and and it's like wow didn't you realize that those are
spk_0 the words of the song I didn't realize that those were the lyrics I know all the words to that song
spk_0 and didn't really understand what that meant and I'm singing this I'm singing this song this spell
spk_0 over myself we do that with our stories as well and our stories is what builds our frequency and our
spk_0 frequency is what attracts what is in resonance or what is not so notice if you have to chronically
spk_0 shrink self-silence or lower your state to stay connected to people around you experiments with
spk_0 maintaining what is your natural state like when you go into meditation or you breathe or whatever
spk_0 if you are allowed to be present without without rescuing notice if those relationships are
spk_0 strained or just collapse this is data about mismatch frequency mismatch because sustainable
spk_0 resonance requires mutual movement sustainable resonance requires mutual movement for you to be
spk_0 in harmony with another person there has to be a matching that goes on and if the frequency gap
spk_0 is huge and one person won't rise the other person will always pay the energetic cost
spk_0 at often at the expense of creativity health or joy resonance isn't free if like if you hold
spk_0 all the resonance and you've been doing the work and you've been connecting to that state you will
spk_0 pay the power bill if you commune with people who don't so look at that when you're thinking about
spk_0 the notes you want to sing the frequency who you want to commune with who do you want to vibe with
spk_0 who do you find yourself in harmony with how do they amplify your song or how do they bring it off
spk_0 key at some point you get to decide I don't I really don't think that the universe is going hey
spk_0 look there's there go Sally Jones you know let's let's let's uh let's show this curve ball at her
spk_0 I don't know who has the time um we are looking at a collective resonance right I think I believe
spk_0 I said on many podcasts we wouldn't see what is happening in our world currently if it wasn't within
spk_0 us as a collective none of this would resonate with us at all if we didn't if this if this
spk_0 wasn't a part of us in some way or another which is why we get such a huge divide because there are
spk_0 other people who and this does not resonate with me where years before it was that was power for the
spk_0 course that was just normal people are waking up to higher resonance and saying this this doesn't
spk_0 resonate with me anymore we don't want to sing this song anymore which is where we're getting all
spk_0 this friction but we have to do us what I call sweeping underneath the rug there have been a lot
spk_0 of things swept underneath the rug that have been just vibrating there and we're having to do some
spk_0 clean out and it's painful and it sucks what you know if you're not looking at the rest of the world
spk_0 wearing your own life do you have those things hiding underneath the rug that are preventing you
spk_0 from being in a resonance that actually feels comfortable or feels elevated to you it's like
spk_0 you know you resonate with chaos and if you resonate with scarcity then those things will always come
spk_0 back in chorus to find you that will always be the song that you sing until you decide you don't
spk_0 want to sing it anymore and listen I haven't mastered this myself I'm watching it I'm watching it
spk_0 I'm getting to see a front row seat it's not only how I do it in my own life but like how others do as
spk_0 well I am getting an extraordinary opportunity right now to be able to observe the stories that
spk_0 people tell themselves in order to keep them in particular frequencies I am gacked by by the way
spk_0 that we will align with with lower versions of ourselves I don't say like that but we will align with
spk_0 denser versions of ourselves darker versions of ourselves to massage what we ultimately don't want
spk_0 I mean maybe in some ways we do want it because it feels familiar it feels comfortable but
spk_0 you know there there's these these ways that we can massage that because it feels good to feel like
spk_0 we can predict the outcome even if it's a bad one I knew that was going to happen I knew
spk_0 what this is all I deserved I knew men are like this I knew I I never be successful that's that
spk_0 I knew it that statement right there I knew it that is as as an ego statement like that is a safety
spk_0 statement that is a protective statement that is a at the end of this really uncomfortable thing I
spk_0 still win because I knew it I get to say that I predicted something and that makes it hurt less
spk_0 and it hurts less than being like oh my god I was completely blindsided I had no idea
spk_0 that oh my gosh that came out of nowhere right that would have to mean that you were
spk_0 green on something that you didn't understand or you were unaware some people don't want to admit
spk_0 that oh see I knew it I knew it I knew bad things were going to happen to me man you got to be
spk_0 careful because that is a very very powerful spell extremely extraordinary and it will put you
spk_0 in a song for a very long time that you are familiar with singing but may not want to sing anymore
spk_0 it's a hard one to get out of your head so to just kind of just like wrap this up um this this
spk_0 idea I'm obsessed with this idea you're probably going to hear more about it for me as a philosophy
spk_0 because if we get caught in the idea that we're always being tested and that there's someone else
spk_0 deciding what it is that we need to learn it will always carry the vibration of not enoughness
spk_0 that I'm not enlightened enough I don't know enough we will always pedestal our guides and our gods
spk_0 and anything that's outside of earth do you know that you are the strong one for coming in here
spk_0 do you know that do you know that you essentially lowering your vibration lowering your frequency
spk_0 to come into a human body into all this mess and still find out who you are you you are the the
spk_0 price you are the master to come into this space and still come into a space of love compassion
spk_0 and a frequency of healing do you know how hard that is you know how many people don't do that
spk_0 can't do that yet a centuries a millennia of people walking around here unconscious before they were
spk_0 able to remember if you're if you're getting to that point where you're starting to open up
spk_0 and these things are starting to resonate with you you've shifted you've changed
spk_0 you you've elevated and so like just just because something is outside of this earth doesn't put it
spk_0 in a higher pedestal than where you're at you're just trying to remember we are in a construct that
spk_0 that causes us every fucking day to forget who we are we got bills and fears and wars and and
spk_0 crazy isn't it's we are it's a it's a it's a barrage on our nervous system it's an assault on our spirit
spk_0 so in knowing that and knowing how difficult that is like what do you have to do
spk_0 to provide energetically for yourself so you can be in a different layer I was you know having
spk_0 this awareness come to me where I was like we exist in different layers that interact with
spk_0 each other but like we have different experiences based on the layer we're in and since someone was
spk_0 like oh yeah that's like 3d 45 d 6 day and I'm like yeah but like in a smaller octave I think that
spk_0 on this earth specifically the people who have that blind mediocrity where they walk in rooms and
spk_0 be like I deserve to be here and they are entitled about what it is that they want and need and
spk_0 they're willing to step on others to get it they live in a different layer everything happens for
spk_0 them because they believe it should why is there no justice for these people because they live in
spk_0 a different layer they have decided that this is their fantasy world their video game that they
spk_0 are going to do whatever they want and they're going to get whatever they want and that's some really
spk_0 powerful magic and and then they tell other people you're nobody you're this you're that whatever
spk_0 and if we accept that story then we end up in a different layer where things operate with different
spk_0 rules like no justice for us either so I was I was I was thinking about that is because I was
spk_0 in this situation where I was watching me and a family member try to call this number and get a
spk_0 toe to happen and they would call a whole bunch and no one would answer and I would call the answer
spk_0 on the first ring and I was like what what is what is that we're both calling the same number
spk_0 the same person um you know for this this assistance or whatever for this toe but because I live in a
spk_0 different layer according to frequency I live in a different song things happen differently for me
spk_0 and that may make it why it's difficult sometimes to understand people who live in different layer
spk_0 and go I understand why they can't just get over that I can't understand why they don't just do
spk_0 this in this in this they don't live in the same layer you do now again that layer that frequency
spk_0 is a choice you can choose what frequency you resonate with like the only thing you have in your
spk_0 power the only thing you have control over is how you respond to things now you respond to things
spk_0 is the reverberating resonance you're putting into your world that you want mirrored back to you
spk_0 that is the only thing you can control in this world so be be the master of that something comes
spk_0 into your life trial tribulation you know an X whatever like you have some of that energy coming
spk_0 back into your life you get to decide how you respond to it you don't necessarily get this to
spk_0 to decide what happens you do get to decide how you respond to it and how you respond to it is
spk_0 everything it's everything and you have chance after chance after chance to determine what that
spk_0 what that looks like you get a chance to determine what song you will sing you get a chance to
spk_0 determine what frequency you want to move into because if this universe is based off of resonance
spk_0 that exists within dualities and spectrum of polarization then all of these factors
spk_0 mean that you have so many choices on a day to day basis of how you will see or interact or
spk_0 put out energy in the opportunities that you choose to resonate with then then there's no one
spk_0 really to blame there's no one testing us there's no one over here judging us don't one saying
spk_0 oh she's not aware enough like the universe is out here to get you and I think it works maybe
spk_0 possibly as close to an algorithm as possible what we engage with what we interact with what we
spk_0 resonate with we're going to see more of and again this is not like a victim blaming thing at all
spk_0 we have there again people have free will and things that happen on the outside world will happen
spk_0 regardless it will have nothing to do with us but we are in control of how we respond to day to day
spk_0 things and and our response to those things and those perspectives will give us the you know compilation
spk_0 or the cumulative frequency that we will interact with more of that we will interact more of with
spk_0 so yeah that is that is what I'm learning right now and you know that's all this podcast has
spk_0 ever really been about is like this is what I'm learning right now this is the philosophy I'm playing
spk_0 with if this is something that resonates with you and it buzzes in your harmony consider joining
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spk_0 you can go to helleloftsociety.com also my books are open for readings and coaching like this
spk_0 I have a coaching program where we do eight weeks together developing your most authentic self so you
spk_0 can figure out really what does resonate with you and what doesn't and how to connect deeper to
spk_0 your intuition so that sounds like your cup of tea go to thelovelyalea.com I will see you guys next time